It is the traditions and elegant customs of judo that lend it depth and that priceless sense of mutual respect that so many modern activities struggle to achieve. The mere effort of learning the etiquette and adhering to it as the very foundation stone of judo elevates a player above anything remotely resembling poor sportsmanship and it is fair to say that rudeness and general belligerence around dojos and competitive events is virtually unheard of. It is arguable that etiquette is the one thing that allows a strange paradox of judo to remain in balance - the paradox being that fierce competitive spirit can live in perfect harmony with great mutual respect, friendship and mutual benefit. Without a fixed and strict etiquette, judo would become a slave to the same forces that push other contact sports into and out of respectability, fashion and favour. Etiquette in judo is not negotiable, nor is it flexible or left as a matter of choice by individuals or clubs. It is the one element of judo that stands above all the others, including skill levels and technique, knowledge and competitive success. With a sincere observance of good etiquette, one can practice one`s heart out and compete with utter committment and not yet loose any friends nor demean ones self in any way. Thus, quite clearly, good etiquette actually speeds one`s progress by constantly suppressing negative influences such as ill will between players, disfavour with coaches, reluctance to partner with you in randori or uchi komi, uninviting atmosphere in the dojo and such like. If you practice good etiquette, you will automatically find that coaches and senior players will be much more willing to give you time and patience and to help you work through your personal obstacles.
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